alternatives to judging others

Judging others isn't cool. It isn't nice to be around and it makes people feel bad.

Here is my list featuring adorable emoji called

"Alternatives to Judging"

1. Entertain the idea

2. Expand the realm of possibilities

3. Try to accept it

4. Have an open mind

5. Meet the other person half way

6. Hold the possibility for a moment

7. Say maybe

8. Don't worry about it

9. Take a bird's eye view

10. Ask for more info

11. Become an ally

12. Ask youself why you are judging

13. Love it as it is

14. Think about it in a sort of prayerful, peaceful way

15. Try it out for while

16. Instead of judging find grey areas

17. Let it go

18. Don't try to be right,

try to do right by your friendship

19. Seek to understand

20. Try not to control it

21. Let go of your own will and give it to god, let the divine's will be done

22. Attempt to be neutral towards it

23. Ask yourself if it really needs to be judged

24. Think about your role in it

25. Trust the other person

26. Put it off until another day when it will probably be less important

27. Respect the other person and their perspective

28. Talk in through

29. Put the relationship first

30. Write a list of alternatives to judging

and share it with others.

The End.